Why you need to forget about “that’s not fair’.

Why you need to forget about “that’s not fair’.

Have you ever thought that something in your life is just not fair? 

I know I have, and it’s not a good thing.

I think that most of us have some kind of fairness meter built into our psyche.

Truth is, though, it’s not a good way to go through life - worrying about what’s fair and what’s not - because it can send you into a tailspin. It can cultivate negative thinking. It can lead you to say some stupid and hurtful things to people.

For myself, I feel I can turn off the fairness meter, although it can come back on by itself, at which point I have to hit the breaker again.

I have found that the best way to turn it off is to look to others for inspiration.